There’s nothing wrong with your
head, apart from the throbbing gash over your right eye and the 20 stitches
that are holding it together. You
vaguely recall screeching brakes and flying glass. You notice your right leg and arm are suspended
in traction and your foot is itchy. You
are also thirsty.
The doctors are talking about a
lengthy period of rehabilitation with intensive physio and occupational therapy. You will not be able to drive for six months. You live alone.
You and your newest friend named
“Panic”, ponder how you might manage your ablutions, answer your front door or
prepare a meal.
What now?
With your mind accelerating into overdrive,
you stress over how much of the recovery tab your medical aid may pick up? (Or not.)
Since you have no family and your closest friend has a house with
stairs, where will you go for the next six months? What can you afford?
Unless you are prepared to give
someone you trust, a Power of Attorney to handle all your affairs and pay your
bills over the next six months, a curator will have to be appointed. This is tantamount to giving a complete
stranger access to all your financial and personal affairs.
Can there be anything worse?
Yes. Reduced mental capacity.
Whether temporary or permanent, from
concussion to brain damage, early onset dementia to Alzheimer’s. Once you are mentally incapacitated without a
plan B, you are deemed to be incapable of taking care of yourself. A curator it is. (A Power of Attorney has no legal standing
with respect to mental incapacitation.)
The curator will be appointed by
the courts. He or she may be the nicest
person you have ever met (you have reduced mental capacity!). The truth is that the courts do their best to
appoint honest, suitably qualified people and there are many good and able
curators, but the fact remains, you do not know this person who is now in
complete control of all your affairs, with access to every nook and cranny of
your life – including where you may have to spend the rest of your life.
There is a way better
option. It requires foresight, common
sense and planning. Nobody wants to be
beholden to a third party for their care, it is a burdensome responsibility
that may render you powerless and vulnerable.
A contingency plan created before
any physical or mental incapacitation happened, will have kept the newly-disabled
person in the driver’s seat. It entails a personal blueprint of instructions
that covers any future physical or mental incapacitation. It is a plan that replaces complete strangers
with people one knows and trusts.
Disability Planning within a Discretionary
Living Trust represents a protective legal framework that holds the Trustees
accountable to the law, to you and to each other.
Life happens.
Get ahead of the threat and contact
my respected associate, Dr Mervin Messias, a specialist in this field with
years of professional (and life) experience.
For an appointment, call 011 – 783 0108 or email mervin@mmtrustspecialist.co.za.
Please tell him that Bregman Moodley referred you to him.
