Our Services

Our Services

September 13, 2025

A Landmark Ruling for Equality: Men Can Now Take Their Wives' Surnames in South Africa


 

Written by Roy Bregman, an admitted attorney with over 51 years of experience in family and matrimonial law. Read Roy's full biography.

For decades, South African law has upheld a tradition rooted in patriarchal history: upon marriage, a woman could choose to take her husband's surname, but a man was not afforded the same right to take his wife's. This long-standing inequality has now been overturned by a significant judgment from the Constitutional Court. In the case of Jordaan and Others v Minister of Home Affairs, the court declared a key section of the Births and Deaths Registration Act unconstitutional, paving the way for true equality in how couples choose their family name.

This decision marks a pivotal moment in South African family law, dismantling a legal relic of a bygone era and affirming the constitutional rights to equality and dignity for all spouses, regardless of gender.

The Old Law: A Legacy of Patriarchy

The legal framework governing surname changes after marriage was contained in section 26(1) of the Births and Deaths Registration Act 51 of 1992. This section created a clear and unequal distinction based on gender.

  • For Women: The Act explicitly allowed a woman, after marriage, to assume her husband’s surname, resume a surname she had before, or add her husband's surname to her own (creating a double-barrelled name) without needing special permission from the Director-General of Home Affairs.
  • For Men: The Act was silent. A man who wished to assume his wife's surname could not do so automatically. He would have to apply to the Director-General for a change of surname, a process that required a "good and sufficient reason," which, under the regulations, did not include a change in marital status for a man.

The court noted that this practice was a colonial import, rooted in Roman-Dutch law and the English concept of "coverture," where a woman's legal identity was subsumed by her husband’s upon marriage. This reinforced the idea of the husband as the head of the household and the woman as a subordinate, akin to a minor. While South Africa has since abolished the concept of marital power, this provision in the Act remained a stubborn remnant of that patriarchal philosophy.

The Jordaan Case: A Challenge to Tradition

The constitutional challenge was brought by two couples who faced this legal barrier.

  • The Facts:
    • Jana Jordaan and Henry van der Merwe married in 2021. They had decided that Mr. van der Merwe would take Ms. Jordaan's surname to preserve her family name, as her parents were deceased. The Department of Home Affairs informed them this was not possible.
    • Jess Donnelly-Bornman and Andreas Nicolaas Bornman wished to combine their names into the double-barrelled surname "Donnelly-Bornman." They were advised that only the female spouse could amend her surname in this way.

These couples argued that the law unfairly discriminated against them based on gender, violating their constitutional rights to equality (section 9) and dignity (section 10).

The Constitutional Court's Decision:

The Court unanimously agreed with the applicants and confirmed the High Court's order of constitutional invalidity. Justice Theron, writing for the court, found that the law was discriminatory and unjustifiable in an open and democratic society.

The court's reasoning was clear:

    1. Irrational Differentiation: The law differentiated between men and women without any legitimate government purpose. Preventing a man from taking his wife's existing surname does not serve the goal of regulating the creation of new surnames.
    2. Unfair Discrimination: The discrimination was found to be unfair to both men and women. It deprived men of the choice to define their identity and structure their family as they see fit. For women, it was more insidious, reinforcing the patriarchal notion that only a man's name is worthy of being the family name, thereby giving it a superior status.
    3. Violation of Dignity: The court emphasized that the choice of a surname is a matter of defining personal significance. Prohibiting this choice impairs an individual's dignity and their ability to achieve personal fulfilment.

The New Rules: What Spouses Can Do Now

The Constitutional Court declared section 26(1)(a)-(c) of the Act unconstitutional. However, to avoid a legal vacuum, the declaration of invalidity has been suspended for 24 months to give Parliament time to amend the legislation.

During this 24-month period, the court has put in place an interim remedy. The gendered language of the Act is temporarily replaced with gender-neutral terms. This means that, with immediate effect:

  • Any person, after marriage, may assume the surname of their spouse.
  • A married or divorced person, or a widower/widow, may resume any surname they previously bore.
  • Any person may add their spouse's surname to their own.

Should Parliament fail to enact new legislation within the 24-month period, this interim order will remain in effect.

Conclusion

The Jordaan judgment is a significant victory for gender equality in South Africa. It dismantles an archaic and discriminatory law, aligning the country's legal framework with the constitutional values of dignity, freedom, and equality. Spouses now have the freedom to make personal, consequential choices about their family identity without being constrained by outdated gender stereotypes. This ruling ensures that in marriage, both partners stand on an equal footing when it comes to one of the most fundamental aspects of identity: their name.