Q I am
divorced and remarried. My ex-husband has no contact with the minor children
and I would like to change their surname to my married name or, perhaps, give
them a double-barrelled name. Can I do so?
A You need the
ex’s consent (or a court order) to change their surname.
You would
need the dad's permission to acquire sole guardianship (or to change the
children’s surname). If he refuses, you will have to approach a SA court to
appoint you as the sole guardian of the children. Once that happens, the father
falls out of the picture.
I
would have to send him a strongly worded letter seeking his permission and
indicating that if he refuses, you will be left with no choice but to apply to
court, seeking a costs order against him. On the strength of that, he may well
relent, in which event I would need to prepare an affidavit for him to sign,
supporting your unopposed application to acquire sole guardianship.
If he
doesn't respond to my letter or if he refuses to consent, you must approach the
court for an order appointing you as sole guardian.
Once you
have the ex’s approval or court order, you would approach Home Affairs to
change the surname of the minor children. Check out http://www.dha.gov.za/index.php/amendments
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